What if you could speak with a widow who truly understands your experience?
The silence after loss can be deafening. The world moves on, but yours feels like it stopped.
WIDOWED DIARIES
To say his passing was devastating is an understatement. The day I watched my love take his last breath was the worst day of my life. But before he passed, I made him a promise—that I would not only survive, but find a way to thrive. It took years of hard work, countless tears, and a kind of pain I never thought I could survive. Through it all, I learned to trust the process of healing, little by little. What helped me most was connecting with other widows and widowers, who truly understand the depth of this kind of loss.
My best friend and the love of my life passed away 10 months after being diagnosed WITH CANCER. He was 36; I was 34.
Widowhood is unique, and sometimes, what you need most is to speak with someone who truly gets it.
Unless you’ve lived it, it’s hard to truly understand widowhood—the quiet heartache, the sudden waves of grief, the daily struggle to live a life you never imagined...
Let go without feeling like you have to be strong for everyone else
Say the hard things out loud... and not feel judged for them
Stop feeling like you're grieving “wrong”
Ask the questions you’re too tired—or too scared—to ask anyone else
Feel less alone—if only for a little while
Find comfort in a voice that says, “Me too”—and means it
Feel seen, heard, and validated in a way others just can’t offer
Share your story without needing to explain or
soften the edges
What if you could...
YES, IT'S POSSIBLE.
I want to offer others what I didn’t always have—a sense of comfort that only comes from connecting with someone who truly understands the highs, lows, and quiet realities of life after loss.
I’ve been there—wishing I had someone to talk to who actually understood how I felt.
That’s why I created Widowed Diaries, a space to connect with a widow who’s walked the same path.
I have felt—and still feel—that worry that others expect me to be “over it” by now. That’s why I want to create a safe space where widows and widowers can share openly, without fear of judgment or misunderstanding.
Do you want to share your memories openly, without fear of judgment?
Hear how someone else made it through the early days, the milestones, and the moments that felt impossible.
Feel Less Alone &
More Understood
Share your feelings and memories freely without fear of judgment or having to explain your grief.
Safe Space for Expression
Speak with a widow who truly understands the unique pain and challenges of losing a spouse.
Authentic Empathy & Compassion
This Service Is Designed to Support You in 3 Meaningful Ways
I'M READY
By the end of the call, my greatest hope is that you feel a little less alone, more deeply understood, and comforted in knowing that others have made it through the hardest moments—and you will too.
Invest in your healing...
REACH OUT AND CONNECT.
and discover ways to find peace and a renewed sense of purpose.
You want to learn how someone else coped with grief
while also making sure you’re taking care of your own emotional well-being.
You want to honor your spouse's memory
from someone who has not only faced the pain but has also done the hard work to heal.
You’re looking for hope and encouragement
during the hardest milestones and anniversaries.
You need emotional support
This is also for you if...
but will this work for me?
and want to connect with someone who understands the daily challenges of widowhood
You feel overwhelmed by loneliness
release your fears, anger, or sadness —without holding back.
You’re looking for a safe, non-judgmental space to
and want to grieve without feeling judged or misunderstood.
You’re tired of pretending to be “okay”
and want to speak with someone with truly gets it —because they've lived it too.
You feel isolated in your grief ...
This is for you if...
but will this work for me?
My journey through grief was one of the most challenging experiences of my life. It required deep healing and honest self-discovery, where I had to face emotions I never expected and learn how to live with loss in a way that honored both my pain and my resilience. This process wasn’t easy or quick, but it transformed me in profound ways—helping me find strength, clarity, and a renewed sense of purpose.
Because of what I’ve been through, I understand firsthand how isolating and overwhelming grief can feel. I know how important it is to have someone who truly gets it—a person who listens without judgment and offers compassion instead of quick fixes. That’s why I am committed to creating a safe and understanding space where widows and widowers can share their stories freely, without fear of being misunderstood.
If you’re looking for a place to speak openly about your experience, to process your feelings, or simply to be heard by someone who has walked a similar path, I’m here for you.
Hi, I'm Renee.
I’ve walked the path from overwhelming grief to finding strength and hope.
Why speak with me?
Invest in your healing...
REACH OUT AND CONNECT.
Common Qs and As:
I have a question...
Each call lasts 45 minutes and costs $75, with discount packages available for multiple sessions. Calls take place over Zoom, giving you the option to join with or without video—whichever feels most comfortable for you. During our time together, I’m here primarily to listen and offer empathetic support, though I may also share insights from my own experience if you find that helpful.
How long is each call?
This service connects widows and widowers with a fellow widow, providing a compassionate and understanding space where you can openly share your story, feel heard, and receive meaningful support. Whether you want to discuss your grief journey, coping strategies, cherished memories, fears, or simply need a caring listener, this service offers a safe, non-judgmental environment designed to honor your unique experience.
What is included in this service?
No, this service is peer support, not professional therapy or counseling. It is designed to offer empathy, understanding, and shared experience from someone who has personally navigated the challenges of widowhood. If you are experiencing severe emotional distress, depression, anxiety, or any mental health concerns that impact your daily life, it’s important to seek support from a licensed mental health professional.
Is this a therapy or counseling session?
You can expect a confidential and non-judgmental conversation in a safe space where your feelings are honored and respected. This is a place where you can openly share your thoughts, fears, and experiences without worry about being judged or misunderstood. You’ll have the opportunity to ask questions and explore your emotions with a fellow widow who has navigated similar challenges and understands the complexities of grief and loss firsthand.
What can I expect during the call?
I want to make sure you do.
- You feel overwhelmed and just need a compassionate listener.
- You want to share a memory about your spouse without judgment.
- You’re struggling with a difficult anniversary or milestone.
- You’re looking for hope and encouragement from someone who has walked the same path.
- You want to explore how to love—or even just like—your life again.
I didn't always have someone to talk to, so...
Imagine if you could...
i'm READY
You can stay stuck in the loneliness and overwhelm, or you can take a step toward healing, connection, and hope.